ign of love。 If I love you； I will leave you the moment I see my love has bee a misery to you。 If you love me； you will leave me the moment you see that your love is creating an imprisonment for me。”
Love is the highest value in life： It should not be reduced to stupid rituals。 And love and freedom go together—you cannot choose one and leave the other。 A man who knows freedom is full of love； and a man who knows love is always willing to give freedom。 If you cannot give freedom to the person you love； to whom can you give freedom？ Giving freedom is nothing but trusting。 Freedom is an expression of love。
So whether you are married or not； remember； all marriages are fake—just social conveniences。 Their purpose is not to imprison you and bind you to each other； their purpose is to help you to grow with each other。 But growth needs freedom； and in the past； all the cultures have forgotten that without freedom； love dies。
You see a bird on the wing in the sun； in the sky； and it looks so beautiful。 Attracted by its beauty； you can catch the bird and put it in a golden cage。
Do you think it is the same bird？ Superficially； yes； it is the same bird who was flying in the sky； but deep down it is not the same bird—because where is its sky； where is its freedom？
This golden cage may be valuable to you； it is not valuable to the bird。 For the bird； to be free in the sky is the only valuable thing in life。 And the same is true about human beings。
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羅伯特·J。 黑斯廷斯
我們的內心深處總隱藏著一片詩情畫意的風景。我們覺得自己正處於一次跨越大陸的漫長旅行中。坐在火車上，窗外流動的風景在我們面前一掠而過：附近高速公路上馳騁的汽車；十字路口揮手的孩童；遠處山坡上正在吃草的牛群；電廠排放的滾滾煙塵；成片的玉米地和小麥地；還有，平原、峽谷、山脈和丘陵；城市的輪廓和鄉間的農舍。
可是，我們想的最多的還是目的地。某天的某一刻，我們抵達站點，會有樂隊演奏，歡迎的旗幟飄揚著。一旦我們到達目的地，夢想就會變成現實，而我們破碎的生活會像一幅拼好的畫圖，變得完美。我們焦