their eyes； because in the fiction things are going so tragically。 It is a very good device in the movies that they put the lights off； so everybody can enjoy the movie； laugh； cry； be sad； be happy。 If there was light it would be a little difficult—what will others think？ And they know perfectly well that the screen is empty—there is nobody； it is just a projected picture。 But they forget it pletely。
And the same has happened with our lives。 Many things which are simply to be taken humorously； we take so seriously—and from that seriousness begins our problem。
In the first place； why should you get married？ You love someone； live with someone—it is part of your basic rights。 You can live with someone； you can love someone。
Marriage is not something that happens in heaven； it happens here； through the crafty priests。 But if you want to join the game with society and don’t want to stand alone and aloof； you make it clear to your wife or to your husband that this marriage is just a game：“Never take it seriously。 I will remain as independent as I was before marriage； and you will remain as independent as you were before marriage。 Neither I am going to interfere in your life； nor are you going to interfere in my life； we will live as two friends together； sharing our joys； sharing our freedom—but not being a burden on each other。 And any moment we feel that the spring has passed； the honeymoon is over； we will be sincere enough not to go on pretending； but to say to each other that we loved much—and we will remain grateful to each other forever； and the days of love will haunt us in our memories； in our dreams； as golden—but the spring is over。 Our paths have e to a point； where although it is sad； we have to part； because now； living together is not a s