己都沒有信心,可想而知大家的信心會怎樣?
這就是一種當下的自我洞察。你覺得自己是在做一個正面的激勵,但實際上呢?很顯然,自己內心沒有信心的時候,很多話雖然說了,但也不一定能夠達到鼓舞別人的效果。
只有洞察自己當下的行為和語言,才能立刻發現問題所在並做及時的調整,以達到更好的效果。
傾聽內心的聲音
首先,我想給大家介紹一篇英語文章,它是我讀過的、對內心最優美的詮釋。
Verymuch,eversinceyouwerebroughtintothisworld。Whenyoucouldn…topenyourmouthtillthefirsttwoyearsonplanetearth,innervoiceistheonethroughwhichyouinterpretedandunderstoodthings。
Innervoiceisthevoicemouthofthesubconsciousmind。Thesubconsciousmindisalwaysactingasasecondaryreflectorofthoughtsandideasinthebody。Itjustifiesandrationalizeswhatisrightandwhatiswrong。Whenwegoaganistwhattheinnervoicesays,wegetaguiltyconsciousandarebotheredbyitthroughoutourlives。
Attimeswhenwearefeelingloworthoseunforgettablemomentswhenweareletdown;weseemtoneedsomekindofemotionalormentalsupport。Weusuallyspeaktoourclosestpalorourdearestfamilymemberduringtimesofdistresstoeasetheburden。Atsuchtimeswegetovertheinitialdrizzleofemotionalanxietyandmentalrestlessness,becauseofthepeppingupbyourempathiclistener。Wesuddenlyfeelrejuvenatedbecauseourinnervoicealertsustogetonwiththingsandleavethethingsofpastonthememorybooksofourbrain。
Theinnervoiceisalwaysrightmostofthetimesbecauseitknowsusbetterthanothersandprobablyevenourselves。Itisthedaredevilchildoftheintuitionswhichwehavebeenhavingsincechildhood。It…sgoodtogobyintuitionsmostofthetimsbecauseitstheresponseprovidedduetothesynchronismbetweenourmentalandphysicalbeing。
第27節:傾聽內心的聲音(2)
Wheneveryouaretryingyourfirstcigarette;orwheneveryouareaskedtotakesidesinanargument,youarealwaysinasenseofdilemma。Duringthesetimesyourinnervoiceautomaticallygivesitsverdict;whichwhenoverwritten;mightleaveusunhappyinthefuture。It…suptoustoeitherignorethemoraleboosterinsideusorgoouttotheworldandsearchforspiritualguru…sandhappiness,whenalltheseth