arch of a US university that I’ve read gives a definition of happiness as what makes a person feel fortably pleased。 To put it specifically； happiness is an active state of mind where one thinks one’s life is meaningful； satisfactory and fortable。 This should be something lasting rather than transitory。
Lots of people regard it the happiest to be at leisure。 But according to a study； it is not a person with plenty of leisure but one at work that feels happy； especially those busy with work having little time for leisure。 Happiness does not spell gains one is after but a desire to harvest what one is seeking for。 People often do not cherish what they already have but yearn for what they cannot get。 That is somewhat like a man indulging in fond dreams of numerous lovers while reluctant to settle down with the woman beside him。
Happiness is a game balancing between two ends—what one has and what one wishes for； i。 e。 one’s dream and the possibility to realize it。 The study es to this conclusion： A happy man is one who aims high but never forgets his actual situation： one who meets challenges that tap his ability and potentiality； one who is proud of his achievements and the recognition given to him。 He has self…respect and self…confidence； treasures his own identity and loves freedom。 He is sociable and enjoys widerange munication with others； he is helpful and ready to accept assistance。 He knows he is able to endure sufferings and frustrations he is sensible enough to get fun from daily chores。 He is a man capable of love and passion。
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夢想構造生活（1）
卡洛·卡洛
我相信自己是一個幸運的人。
我的一生生活平穩，毫無波瀾。我從未經歷過經濟或情感危機，但我擁有的一切並不是依靠溺愛、遺產或特權，而是透過自身努力工作得來的。
生活中的我從不濫走極端，始終認為工人就應當工作，商人就應當獲利，藝術家就應當獲取報酬。
正因如此，我討價還價的能力沒有絲毫長進，所以我從不試圖過分